Being one of the site administrators I spend a great deal of time learning and using the services on the site. I get to talk to a lot of people about their questions, problems and expectations with the services and try my best to help people to utilize and enjoy them as much as possible :D .
It is a rather large site with many services, some are straight forward and get utilized some do not. But I do know users input is invaluable and helps us improve. There is no point cursing at your computer
so hopefully you can blow off some steam here and tell me any issues you have with any of the services. The most popular of the services and perhaps the one to start with is the match service â€˜meet an outdoor typeâ€™.
The largest complaint we have with the service is; â€œno one ever contacts meâ€
well first of all this is something that I being a girl am going to put squarely on you boys. Not that I am one to offer dating advice however it is generally up to the boys to send out at least an expression of you interest,
I mean it is free and you are anonymous so what are you waiting for, something sweet a few lines:
â€œHello, I saw your profile on the match system and thought you were one of the most interesting and compelling ladies on the site. I would love to know more about you if you care to reply. â€œ Now is that so hard? Now if you are 18 years old the typical "you are hot" may do the trick but generally guys if you are in your 30 ties or 40 ties you should have learned by now you need some style.
So some of my observations:
1) Why do all the guys chase the same 10 girls?
Approach someone your own age and preferably location.
2) Be nice have some style.
3) Do something
donâ€™t expect people to come to you.
4) Put up a pic and something meaningful about you.
5) Donâ€™t worry you are anonymous, this does not mean you can be crude just be yourself, hopefully a gentelman looking for a friend.
6) Use the forum it is a great way to meet people who share the same interests.
7) This site is here for you to have access to information and to have fun. Try it you just might find you have some fun and meet some people. It can be a great way to expand your interest and circle of friends.
8.) Give me your feedback.